Deion Sanders' and his estranged wife are in a real life "War of the Roses" -- living together while they're divorcing -- and now that Pilar Sanders been arrested ... it's escalating out of control . But the biggest mistake they're making ... involves their kids. Plus, Lindsay Lohan fires back at Rosie O'Donnell for that tirade over the Elizabeth Taylor movie -- and Brian McKnight's x-rated song! Fans are pissed, but Brian joined us to say he's not toning down the dirty tune.